tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post1366058424487773319..comments2023-11-29T00:50:04.094-08:00Comments on Mine to Command: History Repeats Itself jAllenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06282963869813954232noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-45179717646367316212013-12-20T21:54:47.517-08:002013-12-20T21:54:47.517-08:00Oh Jane...I'm so sorry.Oh Jane...I'm so sorry. Non Sequitur Chicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07268138421234170972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-87128750112348048612013-12-18T12:23:41.139-08:002013-12-18T12:23:41.139-08:00Oh Jane, this is the last thing I wanted to read f...Oh Jane, this is the last thing I wanted to read from you. I'm so sorry you've had to endure yet another loss. RPL sucks! It's so not fair!Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07415140299306373048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-59744244150501320382013-12-18T11:19:10.780-08:002013-12-18T11:19:10.780-08:00I am so sorry Jane. My heart is breaking for you, ...I am so sorry Jane. My heart is breaking for you, that you have to become a member of this shitty RPL club. It's just not fair. Look after yourself and feel what you need to feel. Sending you much healing for the coming days and weeks.Sadiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14325203869605294768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-57226791511967774572013-12-18T09:33:45.148-08:002013-12-18T09:33:45.148-08:00Oh no, I am so sorry! I was (obviously) hoping for...Oh no, I am so sorry! I was (obviously) hoping for such a different outcome for you this time. Just heartbreaking. <br />Like someone mentioned above, our bodies and situations are different, but I also had two "unexplained" losses around 6 weeks. For this pregnancy, I've been gluten-free and take a daily baby aspirin. Who knows if that's what helped, but I have my theories. <br />Take care of yourself. I'm thinking of you. And hoping SO hard that next time brings your happy ending. xoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-46111511082471833332013-12-18T03:28:09.611-08:002013-12-18T03:28:09.611-08:00I'm so sorry the news isn't better, Jane. ...I'm so sorry the news isn't better, Jane. And I can so relate to feeling "I knew this wasn't going to work", or at least "this is too good to be true, to actually work out", and hating that feeling. Hang in there, and take good care of yourself. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-23444935596571469762013-12-17T21:42:48.515-08:002013-12-17T21:42:48.515-08:00Oh Jane, I, too, am very sorry to read this post. ...Oh Jane, I, too, am very sorry to read this post. I was really hoping that this was your time. Thinking of you.....Shelleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08309531781457230910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-64691657466754543362013-12-17T18:51:30.954-08:002013-12-17T18:51:30.954-08:00I'm so sorry to read this. Even when you have ...I'm so sorry to read this. Even when you have a feeling that it's coming, that makes it no less devastating when it does happen.<br /><br />My thoughts are with you. And not that our situations are the same or anything, but I was 0 for 2 for no apparent reason and the gluten-free/lovenox regimen seems to have worked this time (so far). So if another try is in your future... just saying, stranger things have happened.<br /><br />Truly sorry that this happened, Jane. Sending you a big hug right now.Deedahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02386061097583007160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-71705799795353672262013-12-17T16:45:33.913-08:002013-12-17T16:45:33.913-08:00I feel like I used to follow your blog and somehow...I feel like I used to follow your blog and somehow got thrown off course somehow. Either way, I am so sorry. I am 0-2 as well. It sucks. Sending you peace, love and understanding. Hope you get some answers that you need. Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13213799827326314663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-50623477522486103812013-12-17T13:56:01.017-08:002013-12-17T13:56:01.017-08:00I'm so so sorry Jane. No words here. Just wa...I'm so so sorry Jane. No words here. Just want to give you some love and hugs. :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-41773061013938597342013-12-17T10:20:56.444-08:002013-12-17T10:20:56.444-08:00I'm so sorry. I'm a long-time lurker on y...I'm so sorry. I'm a long-time lurker on your blog. I know you were keeping your expectations in check, but I was so hoping for a better outcome for you. For what it's worth, I had the RPL testing done after my second miscarriage (but not natural killer cell testing, just the thrombophilias). Everything came back clear, but I was glad to have that extra set of data points. As I recall, I had to wait till my HCG was negative for the testing, and then it was several more weeks for the results, so it meant we had to take a break. You're in my thoughts.Megshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09996639181080995151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-26600031423427402512013-12-17T10:17:53.157-08:002013-12-17T10:17:53.157-08:00No! I knew from the title this was going to be ba...No! I knew from the title this was going to be bad. I'm so sorry. I know how disappointing this has to be. I understand the validation of knowing your gut was right. I just wish you had been wrong! Again this is too sad, I'm sorry. Sending lots of peace and love your way.Not Pregnant And Pissed!https://www.blogger.com/profile/16774575387874843165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-43478629962570933332013-12-17T10:04:36.444-08:002013-12-17T10:04:36.444-08:00Oh no! I'm so, so, so, so sorry to hear this. ...Oh no! I'm so, so, so, so sorry to hear this. It's terribly unfair. You're in my thoughts.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-65522098452764618532013-12-17T09:10:26.293-08:002013-12-17T09:10:26.293-08:00No! No, no, no, no, no! Jane, I am so incredibly...No! No, no, no, no, no! Jane, I am so incredibly sorry :( Please know that you are in my thoughts and in my prayers. My heart is so sad for you. I am thinking of you my sweet friend. xoxoAubrey https://www.blogger.com/profile/10268033706598268682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-76117652376793794772013-12-17T08:21:30.185-08:002013-12-17T08:21:30.185-08:00Crap. I am so sorry. I don't even know what to...Crap. I am so sorry. I don't even know what to say. It's all so unfair. JenShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00056681492831041470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-59354202860109622052013-12-17T08:01:16.219-08:002013-12-17T08:01:16.219-08:00Oh Jane, this sucks. I'm so sorry. There's...Oh Jane, this sucks. I'm so sorry. There's really nothing to say, but I do hope you find some comfort in the number of women in this online community that are pulling for you and will be there for you in whatever next steps you decide to take.Lileehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09827780055657053096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-50376648420667516242013-12-17T07:28:13.623-08:002013-12-17T07:28:13.623-08:00So very sorry to read this. I know even when I ...So very sorry to read this. I know even when I 'prepared' myself that the pain is just overwhelming at times. Take care of yourself and I hope you are able to move forward when you are ready. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-1170431726546272992013-12-17T07:11:14.270-08:002013-12-17T07:11:14.270-08:00Oh Jane, I am so sorry. This is such cruel timing ...Oh Jane, I am so sorry. This is such cruel timing for a disappointment. That conspicuously large yolk sac may be the hint at what you already suspected. You're in my thoughts. I pray this passes quickly for you and the new year can bring renewed hope.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06326763572650750036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-50568017007615427572013-12-17T07:10:41.180-08:002013-12-17T07:10:41.180-08:00Oh, Jane. I am so sorry. I know it doesn't cha...Oh, Jane. I am so sorry. I know it doesn't change anything, but know that I'm thinking of you and sending comforting hugs your way.Briannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04066881815556809319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-58541997633616564182013-12-17T06:58:41.313-08:002013-12-17T06:58:41.313-08:00I really thought this was going to work out. Your...I really thought this was going to work out. Your post brought me to tears. How can this be? I feel terrible because I wish I could take all of the pain and disappointment away. Here you are, in the midst of a potential loss, still writing so beautifully. Please know I am thinking of you. xoEvehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15260723824329854148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-27709161596812724382013-12-17T06:58:19.128-08:002013-12-17T06:58:19.128-08:00No!! I am so sorry this happened to you and hubby!...No!! I am so sorry this happened to you and hubby! I hope you get some answers before moving forward. As you probably know, Beloved Burnt Toast had success with a gluten free diet. <br /><br />I hear you on the little voice. I knew both of my IVFs were not going to work as soon as we did the transfer. Hubby thought I was negative, but I call it intuition. I really believe listening to that little voice helps protect our hearts a little bit.<br /><br />Take care of yourself. I will be thinking of you. xoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-58224710758256010192013-12-17T06:56:03.929-08:002013-12-17T06:56:03.929-08:00Ah Jane, I'm so sorry to read this. What shit...Ah Jane, I'm so sorry to read this. What shitty news. As much as we protect ourselves and plan for/expect bad news, it still hurts. Thinking of you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-11417507873028636262013-12-17T06:25:03.270-08:002013-12-17T06:25:03.270-08:00Shit. I've been checking back here every few h...Shit. I've been checking back here every few hours for the update and I, for one, was not right. It's so much easier to hold out hope for each other than for ourselves. And to be emotionally irrational. So, I'll go ahead. Screw this. It sucks and it's not fair. I'm so sorry, Jane. I don't have any other words. Thinking of you lots. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-73471932827650063252013-12-17T05:21:46.121-08:002013-12-17T05:21:46.121-08:00SO SORRY to hear this. I understand your cautious...SO SORRY to hear this. I understand your cautiousness from the beginning...but we all just want the happy outcome for each other...and so we hope. Sending you a hug and I'm begging the universe to TAKE IT EASY on you guys (the Myrtle card would have sent me over the edge!).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-2609753828369733052013-12-17T05:15:47.829-08:002013-12-17T05:15:47.829-08:00Oh Jane, I'm so sorry. I was really hoping you...Oh Jane, I'm so sorry. I was really hoping your title wasn't what it seemed, but it looks like it is. I really hope that your next ultrasound is nothing short of a miracle...but I know the odds of that aren't high. I'm sending only positive, comforting thoughts your way. (As a side note, I'm gluten free and it's the best thing I ever did for myself...if you have any questions or just want to talk, feel free to email me!)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-29715841273764800912013-12-17T04:53:36.012-08:002013-12-17T04:53:36.012-08:00No no no no no. This isn't supposed to happen...No no no no no. This isn't supposed to happen. You got out, dammit! I've had that annoying little "I was right" voice several times myself: when we started TTC, when I realized my first IVF was going to be cancelled, and when our first FET didn't work. I don't know if it's too soon to say this but try to focus on the fact that you've got a couple of frozen embryos and you can try again soon. Your baby has just GOT to be in that bunch.Aramishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12275274008426941898noreply@blogger.com