tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post6469102639191878911..comments2023-11-29T00:50:04.094-08:00Comments on Mine to Command: The Only Living Boy in New YorkjAllenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06282963869813954232noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-33294547118315027132014-06-13T05:04:18.181-07:002014-06-13T05:04:18.181-07:00Oh Jane, I am so so so so SO sorry to read this sa...Oh Jane, I am so so so so SO sorry to read this sad news :( I can't even imagine how you must feel. Please know I'm thinking of you! xoAubrey https://www.blogger.com/profile/10268033706598268682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-16691281109858405862014-06-09T14:02:42.944-07:002014-06-09T14:02:42.944-07:00Oh Jane I'm so sorry. Having recently lost ou...Oh Jane I'm so sorry. Having recently lost our older dog, I know just how hard it is to face losing a beloved pet. Pets are part of the family and it's devastating. Hugs.Non Sequitur Chicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07268138421234170972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-27815934119770715212014-06-08T15:47:56.573-07:002014-06-08T15:47:56.573-07:00I'm sorry Jane. It's so hard to lose a lo...I'm sorry Jane. It's so hard to lose a loved one, no matter if it's human or animal.Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16507432917936364757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-23205201425741491422014-06-07T16:35:27.457-07:002014-06-07T16:35:27.457-07:00Oh.. I am so sorry about your fur baby. :(Oh.. I am so sorry about your fur baby. :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-63408084467984180062014-06-07T14:36:10.057-07:002014-06-07T14:36:10.057-07:00Oh Jane, I'm so sorry. The part where your hus...Oh Jane, I'm so sorry. The part where your husband told your other cat made me cry. It's just not fair that the universe doesn't recognize you're already dealing with one shitty thing and really don't need another.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-13869014426322441082014-06-06T19:00:05.563-07:002014-06-06T19:00:05.563-07:00It's so hard to lose a fur baby. I am sorry to...It's so hard to lose a fur baby. I am sorry to hear about this. :(Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09557861103469077524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-23451241314248426222014-06-06T16:33:38.258-07:002014-06-06T16:33:38.258-07:00Jane, I'm so sorry! I have yet to deal with th...Jane, I'm so sorry! I have yet to deal with this, but I can tell you that I think about it allllll the time with my dogs and dread the inevitable day. It's heartbreaking to lose a member of the family like that. My thoughts are with you.Deedahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02386061097583007160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-75271499742263573802014-06-06T15:00:34.084-07:002014-06-06T15:00:34.084-07:00I'm so sorry, Jane. The cat that is my face t...I'm so sorry, Jane. The cat that is my face to everyone on the internet was my best friend for 7 years. When M and I got moved in together he was so allergic that I had to give him up to my parents. When they called about a year later and told me he was sick and they had to put him down, I cried like a baby. On top of it I felt horribly guilty because I imagined him feeling that I'd abandoned him for the last year of his life. Pets really are part of our families and it's horrible to lose one. Sending hugs.Aramishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12275274008426941898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-7427683563803700272014-06-06T10:05:06.000-07:002014-06-06T10:05:06.000-07:00This makes me so sad and I'm so sorry. Our pe...This makes me so sad and I'm so sorry. Our pets are healthy, but just thinking about losing them can make me breathless with grief.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-67395265984073726572014-06-06T08:13:54.272-07:002014-06-06T08:13:54.272-07:00Losing a pet is one if the hardest things. I reall...Losing a pet is one if the hardest things. I really think its even harder when those pets have been our "fur babies". I am so sorry for your loss :(Gypsy Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13026496787029080243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-74074851594658361702014-06-06T07:53:16.789-07:002014-06-06T07:53:16.789-07:00This post just rips me apart. I lost my beloved ca...This post just rips me apart. I lost my beloved cat almost 5 years ago that I had from age 16 to 32. And even with cats before her and after her, there will never be another like her. They are family and the loss of them is so hard. I'm sending you so much love as you grieve your sweet guy. Suzanne https://www.blogger.com/profile/17076109137436674891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-72165402174672234182014-06-06T07:00:43.120-07:002014-06-06T07:00:43.120-07:00I'm so sorry to hear this, Jane.I'm so sorry to hear this, Jane. Lileehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09827780055657053096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-80447289518569453592014-06-06T06:46:35.589-07:002014-06-06T06:46:35.589-07:00I'm so sorry. I have four pets, and they are t...I'm so sorry. I have four pets, and they are the loves of my life (OK, along with my husband and daughter). One of the cats and one dog are getting up there in age, and I hate thinking that they'll be gone someday. Our animals are such good friends to us, aren't they? And such a comfort through hard times. <br />I'm sure you gave your little guy a great, happy life. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-46962828065909410622014-06-06T06:46:03.828-07:002014-06-06T06:46:03.828-07:00Oh the loss of a pet is heartbreaking. I'm so...Oh the loss of a pet is heartbreaking. I'm so sorry to hear about your sweet cat. I hope he is comfortable in his time left. I'm sure he knows how beloved he is to you and your husband! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16130709434352231750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-85218685740644719232014-06-06T06:11:10.008-07:002014-06-06T06:11:10.008-07:00So sorry to hear this Jane. I shed some extra tea...So sorry to hear this Jane. I shed some extra tears for kitty A just reading your post. It's amazing how much pets become members of the family. They are comforting in so many ways. I hope you guys can enjoy the little bit of time left....extra treats and tuna for everyone!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-42314654833946684562014-06-06T05:55:26.683-07:002014-06-06T05:55:26.683-07:00Oh Jane, I'm so sorry. I experienced something...Oh Jane, I'm so sorry. I experienced something similar a few years ago. My 16 year old cat was losing weight and everyone said it was old age, but that she was healthy. The weight loss persisted so I took her to the vet to learn she had renal failure. As she was otherwise healthy, we decided to delay the inevitable with IV fluids that we administered at home. They said it might give her a year or more... rather she was gone within three months. Those were some of the hardest and longest three months of my life. Caring for and loving a dying soul is hard stuff... I still think I'm traumatized over that season of life. I'm so sorry that there is more loss and sadness in this season for you and your husband. Hoping that there are better days ahead!Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11657607481465480125noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-78441991321095126832014-06-06T05:53:31.395-07:002014-06-06T05:53:31.395-07:00Awwww i am SO sorry to hear this about your sweet ...Awwww i am SO sorry to hear this about your sweet cat... i think any illness of a loved one (human or non human) is hard so i am praying for your family. Just try and think of all the joy you brought each other and what a good life you have given him. Hugs!shayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03343022560947651822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-60394683914123424332014-06-05T23:03:00.484-07:002014-06-05T23:03:00.484-07:00I'm so sorry to hear this. Losing a beloved pe...I'm so sorry to hear this. Losing a beloved pet is so so hard. My childhood cat had to be put down after a similar situation (kidney failure and cancer causing him to drastically lose weight, and he was a fat cat). That was 8 years ago, but he was my first pet, and I still miss him. Wishing you strength in this time you have left with him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-77231056960165373332014-06-05T22:36:45.582-07:002014-06-05T22:36:45.582-07:00I am so very sorry to hear this. I adore my cat a...I am so very sorry to hear this. I adore my cat and I've told him repeatedly that he can't leave us, get sick, etc. because I just couldn't handle it with everything else going on. My heart goes out to you... A Few Good Eggshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13654170259337486983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-65729842913453658522014-06-05T22:19:20.058-07:002014-06-05T22:19:20.058-07:00I'm so sorry and I know exactly how you feel. ...I'm so sorry and I know exactly how you feel. Almost two years ago my beloved dog (I really fucking loved this dog) got cancer. We tried everything to save/extend his life, including amputating his whole front leg and scapula. Sadly the cancer came back. After three surgeries we had to put him to sleep because it was obvious it had spread and he quickly lost mobility of his back legs, became incontinent and was in pain. It was HORRIBLE. I've never been so sad in my life. I would wake up in the middle of the night sobbing. I literally had to ice my eyes because they were so swollen from crying. We had been TTC for over a year at that point and I just couldn't believe that not only could I not have a baby but the baby I did have (my dog) that I loved more than anything was getting taken away from me. Its not fair. I miss him everyday. Its so shitty. I'm sorry you have to say goodbye to your kitty. <3Not Pregnant And Pissed!https://www.blogger.com/profile/16774575387874843165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-43154815073782743832014-06-05T21:47:27.699-07:002014-06-05T21:47:27.699-07:00I'm so sorry Jane. My childhood dog died the d...I'm so sorry Jane. My childhood dog died the day before my niece was born. We always joke that she is his reincarnate. I hope your beloved pal passes comfortably. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06326763572650750036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-48159253021595503792014-06-05T20:37:24.003-07:002014-06-05T20:37:24.003-07:00I'm so sorry. I lost my beloved cat of 9 year...I'm so sorry. I lost my beloved cat of 9 years to lymphoma back in November after I noticed he had lost some weight and was drinking more water - he had the ultrasound which confirmed cancer too. It was crushing for me and my husband, and we still miss him so much. He was my dearest, sweetest companion through my infertility journey and my miscarriages. Cherish the time you have left with him and take lots of pictures. I'm thinking of you.Megshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09996639181080995151noreply@blogger.com