tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post911121964353834068..comments2023-11-29T00:50:04.094-08:00Comments on Mine to Command: In the Words of Stephen Colbert...Moving On...jAllenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06282963869813954232noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-16382845471320024632014-01-08T22:29:57.906-08:002014-01-08T22:29:57.906-08:00Sigh. There's just not really any words, other...Sigh. There's just not really any words, other than I've been thinking about you and so hoping for a totally different outcome. I am so glad you did get that clear cut ending, as I'm sure that did make it at least a little easier emotionally. Although I'm not sure easier is the right word either....Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16507432917936364757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-55963096150996831832013-12-27T08:11:49.484-08:002013-12-27T08:11:49.484-08:00I am just heartbroken for you. What an exhausting ...I am just heartbroken for you. What an exhausting experience. I am so so sorry you have to go through this. However, that book at the end is beautiful, and I know for certain that little one knows how deeply and profoundly loved he/she is. I know that it must be a relief for it to be over, but praying for you, anyway! Thinking about you! XoxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04881435779231406319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-79565194944708723822013-12-26T08:48:56.923-08:002013-12-26T08:48:56.923-08:00I'm so sorry. I'm glad you have a little e...I'm so sorry. I'm glad you have a little emotional relief that this is "over," but that doesn't take away the hurt of what a heartbreaking situation it is. Thinking of you. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-8236105218712668252013-12-25T10:52:14.152-08:002013-12-25T10:52:14.152-08:00I'm sorry there was no miracle, but somehow gl...I'm sorry there was no miracle, but somehow glad your background - and the absence of cardiac activity on the last screen - helps you move forward. I found it difficult to be told that that in this situations my doctors had never seen a positive outcome, I was still hoping to be the exception... for a little while. <br /><br />I've been thinking a couple of times about our parallel and yet so different situations. Many around you probably don't even know you are hurting, while they are walking on eggshells around me. Neither is easy.<br /><br />Your memory box looks lovely. Thanks for sharing the photo.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-32761932945564108972013-12-24T04:48:23.117-08:002013-12-24T04:48:23.117-08:00Oh Jane. I hate this so much for you. My heart ju...Oh Jane. I hate this so much for you. My heart just aches :( Thinking of you. XOXOAubrey https://www.blogger.com/profile/10268033706598268682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-44378413596671514422013-12-24T04:31:06.596-08:002013-12-24T04:31:06.596-08:00I am so very sorry you had to go through this. I l...I am so very sorry you had to go through this. I love the way you commemorated the pregnancy in your book. There will always be a place in your heart for that baby. I hope that 2014 brings you new hope to fill the place of the void left in your heart. Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07415140299306373048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-80947062184654891832013-12-24T02:42:46.847-08:002013-12-24T02:42:46.847-08:00I'm so sorry jane. I hope you have some time t...I'm so sorry jane. I hope you have some time to rest as you prepare to move on. Thinking of you. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01164878358503729479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-91772424655149546162013-12-24T01:08:22.465-08:002013-12-24T01:08:22.465-08:00I'm so sorry Jane- I was hoping for a miracle ...I'm so sorry Jane- I was hoping for a miracle for you. I hope you have a few days over the holidays to rest and recuperate.Non Sequitur Chicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07268138421234170972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-28547205882706309222013-12-23T22:49:28.551-08:002013-12-23T22:49:28.551-08:00I am so sorry about your sad news. A loss after go...I am so sorry about your sad news. A loss after going through the stress and pain of IVF is indeed devastating. Take some time to rest, grieve, recharge. Hang in there, better days are ahead. Arielhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11406223623869440728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-74799965879536900872013-12-23T20:40:41.351-08:002013-12-23T20:40:41.351-08:00By the way, I did mail away for the menarche kit w...By the way, I did mail away for the menarche kit when I was 10 or 11. It was such a bizarre thing to be excited about receiving. We were probably the first generation they tried to convince that getting your first period was such a wonderful right of passage. I also appreciate all of your hidden pop culture references. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06326763572650750036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-31324375629420132192013-12-23T20:37:16.842-08:002013-12-23T20:37:16.842-08:00I have been holding my breath all day, waiting for...I have been holding my breath all day, waiting for your post Jane. I was still holding out for a miracle for you. There are no words to convey how sad I am for you. When we started our first IVF, my husband told me that we weren't going to be the couple that hits the jackpot the first time, we were going to have to inch our way there. Unfortunately, I think you're in the same lot. Is it any consolation that you got a little further this time? I hope the genetic testing gives you the info you need to formulate your next plan. This just plain sucks and I am so sorry that it is happening to you. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06326763572650750036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-15328434862184050192013-12-23T19:44:18.987-08:002013-12-23T19:44:18.987-08:00First of all - I am so sorry that you are going th...First of all - I am so sorry that you are going through this. None of this is easy, even with the relief of it being over it still all just- sucks. <br /><br />When we had our 2nd miscarriage in October, my husband found these amazing pads. I say amazing when I really just mean ginormous! They were 15 inches long (I measured) and 3/4 inch thick with wings. While not attractive, certainly the best things to ease your mind while lounging around.... Bleeding. The best part was the hubs found them. Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13213799827326314663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2808830305872285145.post-58321217708631699992013-12-23T19:16:23.987-08:002013-12-23T19:16:23.987-08:00Oh Jane, is it terrible of me that in this post fu...Oh Jane, is it terrible of me that in this post full of sad news, I'm LOLing at your pad buying experience?? Or "sanitary napkins", as my mother insists on calling them. I'm glad you're keeping your sense of humour but oh so sorry for your loss. Aramishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12275274008426941898noreply@blogger.com